Mid-Autumn festival highlights empty nest crisis by more than a third man says living alone without interest

Nowadays, her age, leg ministry varicosity, with the knee still long spur, will be painful in sweat, she also lazy. Out of time, TV became her partner, but on a person, she is only lonely heart died, miss her thoughts far abroad, son. Each time, the son call home, she always excited for several days, but ultimately to a person more lonely.

The year before last year, up a "LeLing baixia", designed for empty nesters nanny, community also offers free for her application. Nanny to 2 hours a day and more time grandma li love to talk on the phone, every day, to call on relief, also give community acquaintances. "Every time we go, she thrilled, pull our hands, and don't talk 1 hours, she is not let us go." TangHeYun director of community, grandma li really lonely.

In recent years, YangYanYun again when mom and dad when to pull the son, son, university in Beijing, after graduation exams in a foreign company.

Son go to Beijing has 9 years, each sent to the railway station, the son YangYanYun will turn sour, a nose like a tears began to cry. YangYanYun said, most key of this years of life without feeling gravity, very boring. Past son at home, do the dishes now, son like son, she was not one noodles patchy. The home also nobody chat, she had to watch TV, listen to the radio. In some old activity, out of hearing about his son's old people married, they have grandchildren, she was empty.
Busy with work, and a son will come back again. Once again, YangYanYun said, three days off to Mid-Autumn festival does not know son can drive back, she began to count the days. "The son said to come back. To be honest, I really hope that he can be back, on the one hand, nanjing and I together, on the other hand, again afraid he ran, delay working."

Jiangsu KouZhan elderly population of more than 14%, not long ago, the Chinese older psychological care research center, the jiangsu demonstration base of statistics in investigation team, under the support of household survey for 400 children or not without children live together with over 60 years old of nanjing family. Found empty nester family, they 66.58% accounted for the average 13.65 years alone.

In the survey, the mental health status of the man regarded as 52.55% : "feel more with the development of society, the people of 49.08%" what are not interested in 58.29% ", "feels lonely 36.78%", "feel alive dull".

In order to build AiLao respecting work platform, elderly Chinese psychological care research center, and express demonstration base of volunteerism offered to the public. We will make volunteers with the old man ", "volunteers to provide regular visit to old man, door-to-door service, with old man to pass.

The filial piety "replacement" can be different. If you are in nanjing when a volunteer, we will arrange in different priorities for your old volunteers, and service.

As study abroad, with one-child out work, many parents reading middle-aged fluffier began, "empty nester family gradually" young. This small at the old couple from years of busy son busy, suddenly found female didn't know what to do, and problems.