My Wife Wants Me Out!

Imagine that basically a wife left her husband after many years of marriage. The husband mentions how he never cheated on her - but he has damaged her emotionally and psychologically. I don't know exactly what "he" did, but she has decided that he needs to leave and they need to separate. It's a sad situation and I can tell that this guy is really bummed out about it.

A proper response to this situation would be.
This situation really sucks and unfortunately at this point you need to take this advice:
Give her more space, it may take 6 months for a couple to get back together. It could take you that long or more. So, you need to do what she asks. She is telling you to leave - so pack your things and leave. Don't start an argument, don't piss her off just say OK and leave.

At this point you should continue not calling or texting for at least a couple of weeks. If it seems that she really wants some time away from you.
If she did call and text you while you weren't calling or texting her, that is great! By not having any sort of communication with her, you are making her miss you. So, continue to do that for now and meet up with her when she requests. Don't be begging to see her.

Now if you don't hear from her for a month or so, send a short and simple text e.g "Hey, I wanted you to know that I'm thinking of you. Hope all well" If she doesn't respond then she doesn't respond. Don't text her back if that's the case. Just wait another week or so and text her again with something similar.

I hope some of this helps you out man, it's going to be rough. Many men went through what you are going through and the best advice I can offer is for you to keep improving yourself and your life, women love that.

The concerning part is that if the woman was emotionally and psychologically damaged. Some women never repair from these things. You guys need to remember that women are emotional creatures and are hurt very easily even by the slightest of things!

Don't have that attitude to upset your loved one, just because they did something to you. Real men have tough skin and we can take quite a beating of words with little affect, women are the opposite, keep that in mind.

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