Marriages are made in heaven. Indian society though getting modern still believe and follow the trend of arrange marriage. However Indian society is embarded with both Love and Arrange marriage.
We all are familiar with the term Arrange Marriage & Love Marriage. When
a boy or a girl meets each other, both of them likes one another and start
falling in love making a perfect match for a love or a arrange marriage. It is
believed that a pair for a perfect Life partner is made in heaven and which is
universally followed by us. In India,
though we are modernized and following the western trend majority of people
still follow arrange marriage. However, falling in love & love marriage is
not considered as a norm in India.
Choosing a Life partner and getting into
relationship of marriage is an important decision of every individual. However,
in India
arranged marriage is looked as an act love and getting committed into a
relationship. It is essential that one should plan and take proper decision for
the marriage. Today, in India with the help of Matrimonial Sites the
young boy (groom)and girl(bride) themselves take the decision of choosing their
own Life partner which happens in Love Marriage and that is accepted, but it is
also suggested that they should also welcome the comment or suggestions from
their parents or elders in the family. In arrange marriage the family and the
elders keep in mind many points in choosing the perfect match for their
son/daughter.
Several key points are taken care of in scrutinizing the Groom for the
marriage. They can be listed as, Does the boy will appear a good husband or
father in future? Is he having a well settled business or a permanent job for
his livelihood? Is he having any bad record in past which could affect their
daughter in future? Similarly, Brides also come under certain factors, since
the bride would be the honor and pride factor for the in-laws family, the girl
should be in disciplined manner? Does she have the makings of a good wife and a
mother? Is she going to work or will prefer to stay at home and manage her
family? One of the most important factor considered from both ends of Indian
Brides/ Grooms are they physically or mentally prepared to tie their wedding
knot.
Family status and background also plays a vital and important role in love
or arrange marriage. It is always said that, the behavior or nature of the
bride or a Groom depends on how well disciplined and mannered their respective
family is? Parents from bride side looks that if the groom’s family is a
respected and having a respect in society, similarly grooms parents take care
of scrutinizing if the family have given good values to the bride.
Once there is background check of both the boy and
girl along with their family status, the stage comes into picture and that is
the interview round for the 2 families along with boy/girl. Marriages in past
where decided by the elders or parents without asking or taking the feedback of
the young boys & girls, however this trend is getting changed these days.
Today, feedback from the girl or boy is welcomed once they meet each other
during the interview or family meeting under the strict observations of the
parents. If any one from the 2 deny’s or does not want to tie wedding knot with
the opposite, the proposal of marriage is seemed to be cancelled and it is
hardly seen parents forcing their child to get into such relationship.
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| About the author |
Manoj Varma is Matchmaker and a relationship expert specializing in Marriage Planning. He has written authoritative articles on Indian Brides & Grooms, Arrange & Love Marriage, My Matchmaking Life Partner and is currently assisting websites related to Matrimonial Sites Indian Marriage & Free Matrimonial as a Relationship Specialist. |
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