Can You Get Your Ex Back? Why The Answer Is Yes!

Can You Get Your Ex Back? Why The Answer Is Yes!

Are you doubting your ability to get your ex back? Wondering if it is possible at all? No matter how you two broke up it is always 100% possible to get your ex back. It all depends though on a couple of things. So take a deep breath, relax a little, because I am going to explain now why you still have a chance.

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Basically breakups don’t just happen overnight. Believe it or not, your ex was building up to the breakup possibly for sometime, looking for a window of opportunity. After breaking up it is universal that the person doing the dumping will feel guilt and also a bit of superiority over the dumpee. Remember these two things, guilt and superiority, because they are the two things you are going to use to change the way your ex feels about you.

Now your ex expects two things after a breakup. They firstly expect their life to get a lot better (superiority), and they also expect you to be in a certain amount of pain (guilt). This isn’t limited to just your ex either, this is a universal behavior people exhibit after leaving someone. How is knowing this going to help get your ex back? Well as I just said your ex expects certain things after a breakup, if things all go according to these expectations then they aren’t going to question their decision to leave you, because things are going ‘according to plan’. How you make them question their decision is to behave in a way that doesn’t mirror their expectations.

How do you do this?:

1. They expect you to be in pain remember, this is where their guilt is coming from. It will be hard, but you have to accept the breakup and most importantly be happy with it. The sort of reaction you want is that a weight has been lifted off your shoulders, a feeling of relief. I heard a great example of this once, after being dumped the dumpee replied “That’s ok, either way I’m going to be fine.”, two days later the dumpee’s ex wanted them back. Does this make sense?
2. Now we have to deal with your ex’s feeling of superiority. This is why they left you of course, because they can do better, and be better off somewhere else. This is create subconscious images in their mind that they are in fact better then you. So how can you turn this around and get your ex back? You have to improve your life. Simple. Go workout, learn something, get a job, the point is do something that puts you in a position in life that is improved since you broke up with your ex.

It can be a weird concept that because your they feel guilty about hurting you and feel superior to you, that you can get your ex back, but it works. These two things are the reason why it is never impossible to win back their heart. By behaving in a way that they don’t expect, you make them question their decision and this is your window of opportunity.

You’ve just learned WHY you can get your ex back, now learn HOW you can get your ex back!