Making Love to an experienced Partner- Some Basics

Making love at times can be a challenge for you, specially in cases where you are not very sexually experienced and equipped with the right kind of moves while making love. The situation can become even difficult for people if their partner is a master of lovemaking. Performance anxiety is natural in such situations and the result is a pathetic sexual experience.

Just because you are new to sex does not means that you can not have a great sex with an experienced partner. Some basic techniques can help you get the best.

Do not try to be a jack of everything- Master one thing

Master an art perfectly, it can be kissing, stroking or massaging. This will give your experienced partner a positive feeler and he/she will definitely love it.

Be sure of what you are doing and do it confidently

While on bed you can experiment a lot of things but don’t let you partner know that you are just trying it out to see if it works or not. Be very confident as if you are a master of things you are doing. If you’re not feeling confident, give it some time and then get intimate. If you are not comfortable in doing things you are doing, it can turn out to be a major turn off.

Be Prepared

If you are suffering from any physical disorder, even to a minor extent, do not avoid it.  It can be premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction (men). One has to ensure that they overcome it before going on for a sexual encounter with an experienced partner. Pills like Viagra and Cialis are very effective for such people.

Relax

Just because your partner is an experienced love maker, does not means that you will be nervous or anxious. Forget his sexual past; think as if he is just like you. Relax!! Have a glass of wine and listen to some good music, it will help you.

Do not feel shy in taking your chances

Suppose thing have gone well and you really are enjoying yourself and know that your partner too is having fun and then he or she does something that you have never tried before. Do not panic in such cases, see how you feel. If it works-fabulous. If you are uncomfortable-speak to him/her softly about it.