Satisfying your Better Half

Why is it that in more than 50% of cases women does not achieve an orgasm even after satisfying sexual intercourse? One major cause of female sexual satisfaction is the fact that people believe that intercourse can get them closer and give her the maximum pleasure required for an orgasm.

Vaginal penetration, as a form of sex is poorly designed to give pleasure to both parties, specially for women. If men and women have to achieve maximum sexual satisfaction with one another, they will have to change their style of making love a bit.

Conventional sexual intercourse, in which the penis is inserted into the vagina, may be an efficient method of reproduction but is doomed to failure when it comes to providing ultimate pleasure and orgasm, mostly for women.

According to experts, women have orgasms more easily when masturbating than when having intercourse. This is because the clitoris, the stimulation of which leads to orgasm, is situated above the entrance to the vagina, where it is mostly inaccessible to the thrusting movement of the penis.

This difference between men and women is very common but is rarely recognized. Incase of men sexual stimulation while masturbating and while having sex is quite similar, the in and out movement. While masturbating the grip of the hand does the job of the vaginal hole. But things are complicated when it comes to women; in fact it is completely different. So it is not at all surprising that the rate of orgasm for women during intercourse is low.

That old cliché about men being from Mars and women from Venus applies not only to their psychology but to their anatomy, too.

Despite the importance of clitoral stimulation to women, the definition of sex is focused on intercourse. This is fine for men, but not at all fine for women, and may account for the high proportion of women that research suggests suffer from "sexual dysfunction".

Researchers and pharmaceutical companies are busy searching for a Viagra like equivalent for women, which can give them maximum arousal and orgasm. Instead of wasting millions on such researches they should advice these simple techniques which can provide immense pleasure to both the partners, without wasting any money.