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Submitted by Laura on Tuesday Oct 07, 2008 and viewed 163 timesTotal Word Count: 463
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Please let me view our problems (including breakups) in the different light. Everything is not existing forever. Even the gigantic space stars shine and go out. All processes in the space, in the nature and in the human’s life are alike. All has a beginning, an advance, a maturity, an ageing and an end. In this time every process is individual. Individuality of courses includes their different speed, different force, different continuance and different effect. And the relationship has the beginning, the advance, the maturity, the ageing and the end.
Please let me
view our problems (including breakups) in the different light. Everything is
not existing forever. Even the gigantic space stars shine and go out. All
processes in the space, in the nature and in the human’s life are alike. All
has a beginning, an advance, a maturity, an ageing and an end. In this time
every process is individual. Individuality of courses includes their different
speed, different force, different continuance and different effect. And the
relationship has the beginning, the advance, the maturity, the ageing and the end.
Sometimes the processes and relationships in human’s life are objective or independent from the wishes of the person. But often they are result of action or inaction of person. So often effect our relationship is result our actions. Whether we are happy or not, rich or not, beloved or not almost always is the effect of our efforts.
Your relationship like all processes in space and in nature had the beginning and the advance. Now it’s in a phase of the breakup. Whether the breaking up will be the end of your relationship or not depends on you. Although sometimes we may accuse other people (including our beloved ones) in all the troubles that exist between us, this approach will only lead to more tough separation between you. And likely It will be the end of your relationship.
But my opinions is that no relationship is unsalvageable, so you should calm down and think. The nature will help to you for it. Take the holidays and go out for a vacation at the sea, for instance. The change of the location, the sea view and fresh sea air will help you a lot to settle down and clear your mind. It will get your thoughts going in the right, constructive direction. And you eventually will discover a creative solution that otherwise would stay unreachable for you.
Creative solution might include the wish to become responsible for the breaking up but not to beg or plead, but to become more attractive outwardly like it was at the beginning touch between you, the wish to refresh your relationship, the wish to change inwardly for all these great things.
Sometimes the processes and relationships in human’s life are objective or independent from the wishes of the person. But often they are result of action or inaction of person. So often effect our relationship is result our actions. Whether we are happy or not, rich or not, beloved or not almost always is the effect of our efforts.
Your relationship like all processes in space and in nature had the beginning and the advance. Now it’s in a phase of the breakup. Whether the breaking up will be the end of your relationship or not depends on you. Although sometimes we may accuse other people (including our beloved ones) in all the troubles that exist between us, this approach will only lead to more tough separation between you. And likely It will be the end of your relationship.
But my opinions is that no relationship is unsalvageable, so you should calm down and think. The nature will help to you for it. Take the holidays and go out for a vacation at the sea, for instance. The change of the location, the sea view and fresh sea air will help you a lot to settle down and clear your mind. It will get your thoughts going in the right, constructive direction. And you eventually will discover a creative solution that otherwise would stay unreachable for you.
Creative solution might include the wish to become responsible for the breaking up but not to beg or plead, but to become more attractive outwardly like it was at the beginning touch between you, the wish to refresh your relationship, the wish to change inwardly for all these great things.
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