Articles By Julie McRitchie

Time management and team work run interlinked together and as soon as the kids understand the more they help you with the running of the home the more you can ensure they arrive where they want to be on time. Allow consequences of tasks not completed run their course naturally – which is hard but worth it in the long run. We have a set family roster of jobs that are flexible in its time line expectations. The washing needs hanging out or the bin needs emptying. This type of system just didn’t work for our family but I know it does work well for others. The kids keep their own school diaries and only update the family calendar with times changes for sports, job, or social items.

Make a Fuss: Having your child arrive home with an award is worthy of a bit of a fuss. Keep a Record of certificates and awards your child receives to show them you acknowledge their achievements. Your child may not get the best math score but rather is rewarded as the willing worker, caring friend etc. Family rewards: For a great week of teamwork by all members can result in an extra fun family activity, eg family tennis game, family bike ride and sausage sizzle. Keep in mind the very real issue of children is not only not getting enough ‘quantity’ time because both parents work, but they also often lack decent “quality time” as well.

Your child should want to do the activity and be motivated to get there on time and to practice. If not, forget about it. Advantages – There are many benefits to participating in extra curricular activities for children and as a parent you will learn to ‘qualify’ each new interest based on your child’s excitement, and how long they have talked about participating. Not a Fit for Everyone - Some children don’t enjoy extra activities full stop. Look to your Local Community to provide the stimulation your child may need. Try enquiring about the activities your local schools and community centers offer and listen to other parents & children with regard to their experiences.